Sunday 16 March 2014

Create your Own Reality!!!


If you are a poet, you will see clearly that there is a cloud floating in a sheet of paper. Without a cloud, there will be no rain; without rain, the trees cannot grow; and without trees, we cannot make paper. The cloud is essential for the paper to exist. If the cloud is not here, the sheet of paper cannot be here either. So we can say that the cloud and the paper inter-are. "Interbeing" is a word that is not in the dictionary yet, but if we combine the prefix "inter-" with the verb "to be," we have a new verb, inter-be.

"If we look into this sheet of paper even more deeply, we can see the sunshine in it. Without sunshine, the forest cannot grow. In fact, nothing can grow without sunshine. And so, we know that the sunshine is also in this sheet of paper. The paper and the sunshine inter-are. And if we continue to look, we can see the logger who cut the tree and brought it to the mill to be transformed into paper. And we see wheat. We know the logger cannot exist without his daily bread, and therefore the wheat that became his bread is also in this sheet of paper. The logger's father and mother are in it too. When we look in this way, we see that without all of these things, this sheet of paper cannot exist."Start Creating your Own Reality.Pave way to your Out of Box Thinking.Spend A Peaceful Evening in your Garden.In a Place full of Fresh Flowers.Inhale the Fresh air.Exhale your Tensions.


Yard full of Butterflies
Decesive Tarentella of Birds
Glister Garden Green
Lively Whirly Wind
Perfumed Magical Hour
Glass full of Soup
More than enough to
Enjoy the weekend Evening!!!!!!!!!!!!

The smile of a kid can bring out the rainbow colours in your mind.Expand your thinking.That smile you were carrying in your face in your child hood.where did you lose it?How did you Lose it? Stop worrying.Start Loving the nature,Start Loving the environment.When it Rains we rush and get and Umbrella and protect ourself.Enjoy the Rain Let the Rain drop touch you face,rest in your eye lids,cherish the moments in your heart.Live the Life of a child for a moment.You will get back all those colours in your Life which you were Longing for!!



Pearl of Price
with new sunrise
Million Dollared Ride
With inner joy Pride
Matchless Pleasure
I always Treasure
No chance to frown
As I am wearing my Invisible Crown!!!



If you feel Lonely Lie down and Look into the dark sky.The Twinkling stars can narrate you the story of nature.The Cool breeze will touch your heart and wipes off your fears and tears. Recognition puts us back in the driver's seat, piloting our own craft and no longer at the mercy of circumstance. That we had been constantly crashing into things was simply because we weren't steering; what was steering was our automatic, unexamined, interpretive stance in relationship to reality, and we kept hitting the wall, clueless. So it is an empowering and transformational shift to take responsibility in that way.Thus we have choice and power not over what's actually out there or what happens to us, but rather, how we see and interpret what's out there and what happens.Create your Own Reality!!!!

Friday 7 March 2014

Are You TrustWorthy???


When we are trustworthy people can rely on us. We can be counted on to do what we say we will do. If we make commitments, we follow through on them.keeping promises is very important. Don't make promises you can't keep.

Being trustworthy also means that our outer words are aligned with our intentions. We seek to maintain a level of transparency that lets other people feel clear about who we are and what they can expect from us. We treat the trust of others as a sacred gift, knowing that it in trusting us they make themselves vulnerable and that we have the power to harm them.Being trustworthy doesn't mean we will never let others down. Rather, it is a attitude and a pattern of behavior that honors the trust placed in us.

A teacher showed three toys to a student and asked them to find out the differences. All the three toys were identical in their shape, size and material. After keen observation, the student observed holes in the toys. 1st toy it had holes in the ears. 2nd toy had holes in ear and mouth. 3rd toy had only one hole in one ear. Students put the needle in the ear hole of 1st toy. The needle came out from the other ear. In the 2nd toy, when the needle was put in the ear it came out of mouth. In the 3rd toy, when the needle was put in, the needle did not come out.


Teacher explained : First toy represented those people around you who give an impression that they are listening to you and care for you. But they just pretend to do so. After listening, as the needle comes out from the next ear, the things you said to them by counting on them are gone. So be careful while you are speaking to these type of people around you, who don’t care for you.

Second toy represented those people who listen to you and give an impression that they care for you. But as in the toy, these people will tell your confidential things to others for their own purpose. Third toy represented kinds of people who will keep the trust you have in them. They are the ones who you can count on. They are the one’s whose friendship is to be cherished.So Which Category you Belong to?



Honesty is the best and the most expensive gift you can give to someone.It brings trust. It makes you trustworthy, which is priceless.Remember, trust cannot be purchased, learned or acquired.It has to be earned.Trust based on Honesty is the foundation of strong and bonding relationships.Lead a Honest & Happy Life.Because If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything ~ Mark Twain


Little Boy and his mother were crossing a bridge.The mother was kind of scared so she asked her little one,‘Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don’t fall into the river.’The little Boy said, ‘No, Mom. You hold my hand.’‘What’s the difference?’ Asked the puzzled Mother..‘There’s a big difference,’ replied the little Boy.‘If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go.But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.’In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.Hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours:)

When you get to know some one Loves you very Deeply you will feel happy! But Being Trusted will Give you Real Happiness than being Loved!! Becoming a trustworthy person is within the reach of anyone. It is a powerful and essential character trait that can take you far in every kind of relationship you make. Trustworthiness starts with you, no matter who you are. It doesn't matter what clothes you wear, your level of education, family, connections, or your wealth or popularity. It starts with the words you say, the everyday actions you do, and the promises you keep. You can't buy it. You can't pretend to have it. You have to prove it.

Sunday 2 March 2014

The Handedness Mystery!!!

               Humans are the only species to show a strong bias in handedness, with around 90% of people being right-handed. The cause of this bias remains largely a mystery .Researchers haven’t quite figured that out yet, but some believe it’s a complex collaboration between genes and environment. There isn’t a distinct gene that indicates left-handedness; however, there is a difference between brain capabilities in righties and lefties.


A genetic study has identified a biological process that influences whether we are right-handed or left-handed. Scientists found correlations between handedness and a network of genes involved in establishing left-right asymmetry in developing embryos.The most strongly associated, statistically significant variant with handedness is located in the gene PCSK6, which is involved in the early establishment of left and right in the growing embryo.

                                       
The connection between the left brain and the right brain is "somewhat larger and better connected in left-handers. So what does this mean? It could mean that left-handers have a slight advantage in sports, gaming and other activities in which players face large volumes of stimuli being thrown at them simultaneously or in quick succession. Theoretically, they could more easily use both hemispheres of the brain to manage th­at stimuli, resulting in faster overall processing and response time.  
                                              
                                    
It could also mean that when one hemisphere of the brain got overloaded and started to slow down, the other hemisphere could more easily pick up the slack without missing a beat. Experts also theorize that left-handed people could fare better mentally as they move into old age and overall brain processing starts to slow down: With a greater ability for one brain hemisphere to quickly back up the tasks of the other, left-handed seniors could retain mental quickness longer than their right-handed counterparts.

Some researchers believe lefties are capable of more complex reasoning, which is why there's a particularly high number of lefty Noble Prize winners, artists, writers, architects, musicians, and mathematicians. Others theorize that lefties are forced to find solutions in order to survive in a right-dominated world, which means they experience extra mental resilience. 

Strengths of Righties vs. Lefties



Right-handed AKA left-brained people tend to be have higher

  •  Logic,Analysis,Sequencing,Linear,Mathematics,Language
  •  Facts,Thinking in words,Remembering words of songs,Computation
Left-handed AKA right-brained people tend to have higher abilities in
  • Creativity,Imagination,Holistic Thinking,Intuition,Arts (Motor skills)
  • Rhythm (Beats),Non-verbal expression,Expressing feelings,Visualization,Remember the tune of songs,Daydreaming.

           Yet a number of questions remain, including whether there are selective advantages for right over left handedness that are strong enough to explain why almost the entire human species skews to the right, and is such advantages exist, why 15% of humans remain stubbornly left-handed.The handedness mystery continues!!!